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What Should You Include on a Headstone for a Loved One? 

Oliverie Funeral Home • Nov 02, 2020

Are you and your family trying to decide what to put on a headstone for a loved one? Here are some of the things that funeral homes will tell you that you should try and include.

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If you’re going to bury your loved one at the conclusion of their funeral services at one of the funeral homes in Lakehurst, NJ, you’re likely going to want to invest in a headstone for them. These days, you can find headstones made out of many different materials. They also come in a wide range of shapes and sizes. You should pick out the one that you like best for your loved one and then make sure that you include the right things on it. Check out some of the things that you might want to think about adding to your loved one’s headstone.


Your loved one’s name and any nicknames you had for them

The first thing that you’ll obviously want to put onto your loved one’s headstoneis their name. You should include their full government name on their headstone. You might also want to consider putting any prominent nicknames that they had on their headstone. While you don’t want to squeeze every last nickname that they had onto their headstone, you should think about including one if it’s what most people called them throughout their life.


Your loved one’s date of birth and the date of their death

Once you figure out where you’re going to put your loved one’s name on their headstone, the next thing you’ll want to include is their date of birth and the date of their death. This will let people know how old your loved one was when they passed away. You should also include the full dates for both your loved one’s birth and death so that they’re easy to identify later on.


The roles your loved one played in your family

Your loved one likely served a bunch of different roles within the structure of your family. They may have been a spouse, a parent, a sibling, a cousin, and more. You should pick some of the most important roles that your loved one played and work them into their headstone. By doing this, you’ll show others just how essential your loved one was to your family.


A quote that is dedicated to your loved one

Did your loved one request that you put a specific quote on their headstone? Or is there a quote that you automatically associate with your loved one that you might want to put on their headstone? As long as the quote isn’t too, too long, you should be able to squeeze it onto your loved one’s headstone. You should try to put it somewhere near the bottom so that people can read it when they’re standing close to the headstone.


A photo of your loved one

Most families choose not to put a photo of their loved one onto their headstone. But you should know that you will have the option to do it if you would like. There are certain types of headstones that will provide you with an opportunity to put your loved one’s photo right on them. If you’re interested in doing this, you’ll want to speak with your funeral home while planning out your loved one’s Lakehurst, NJ funeral servicesto see if it’s going to be possible for you to do it.


Oliverie Funeral Home can lend a helping hand to those who need to obtain a headstone for a loved onewhile making Lakehurst, NJ funeral arrangements for them. We can also help you with every other aspect of the funeral planning process. Touch base with us today if you’re in need of burial services for a loved one.

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