Patricia Spencer 51 of Manchester died suddenly Saturday January 4, 2020 at home. Born in Staten Island, NY, she grew up in Colts Neck and resided in Freehold for 8 years before moving to Manchester in 1996. She worked for Doc Prob in Lakewood as an Administrative Assistant. She enjoyed dancing, socializing with family and friends and shopping. She is predeceased by her parents, Thomas & Louise Mistretta. Surviving are her loving & devoted husband of 31 years, Victor, her siblings, Vera Wilmot & Peter Grohmann of Laguna Beach, CA, Ann Mort & husband Richard of Bayville, Frank Mistretta & wife Roberta of Freehold, Mary Ellen Bavaro & husband Nick of Farmingdale and Diane Ruggiero of Dover, DE; nephews and nieces, Jonathan, Michael, Angela (Daniel), Eric, David, Nicole, Matthew, Gaetano, Toni and Michelle. Also surviving are her closest childhood friends, Terry Duval & Robin Nagy and many loving friends and neighbors and her furry son Tommy. Visitation is Wednesday 2-4 & 7-9 PM at Oliverie Funeral Home 2925 Ridgeway Rd Manchester. Funeral Liturgy is Thursday 10 AM at St John’s Church, Lakehurst with interment to follow at Brigadier Gen Wm C Doyle NJ Veteran’s Cemetery, Arneytown. In lieu of flowers please make donations to St Jude Children’s research Hospital 501 St Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105.